tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post7830939471315845019..comments2023-10-24T16:16:29.095+01:00Comments on Club 166: Say it Ain't So, JoeClub 166http://www.blogger.com/profile/01816977079856902634noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post-32162324552309604122019-12-11T13:32:37.921+00:002019-12-11T13:32:37.921+00:00As a sign of gratitude on how my son was saved fro...As a sign of gratitude on how my son was saved from autism, i decided to reach out to those still suffering from this.<br />My son suffered autism in the year 2013 and it was really tough and heartbreaking for me because he was my all and the symptoms were terrible, he always have difficulty with communication,and he always complain of poor eye contact . we tried various therapies prescribed by our neurologist but none could cure him. I searched for a cure and i saw a testimony by someone who was cured and so many other with similar body problem, and they left the contact of this doctor who have the cure to autism . I never imagined autism has a natural cure not until i contacted him and he assured me my son will be fine. I got the herbal medication he recommended and my son used it and in one months time he was fully okay even up till this moment he is so full of life.autism has a cure and is a herbal cure,you can contact the doctor for more info on drwilliams098675@gmail.com on how to get this medication, Thanks.katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06816946746595103127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post-5968643468723775692012-07-25T15:39:18.663+01:002012-07-25T15:39:18.663+01:00Oh, and the main reason I posted this was my being...Oh, and the main reason I posted this was my being upset that a father of someone on the autism spectrum could be so clueless regarding his kid. So clueless that he doesn't even realize that by opening his mouth on the subject he's making a fool of himself.<br /><br />I think it was Abraham Lincoln who said "Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool, then to open it up and remove all doubt."<br /><br />JoeClub 166https://www.blogger.com/profile/01816977079856902634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post-9790296049168921752012-07-25T15:36:29.914+01:002012-07-25T15:36:29.914+01:00Thanks for the comments.
@FW2,
I have never said...Thanks for the comments.<br /><br />@FW2,<br /><br />I have never said that autism is a "bed of roses". Neither does my autistic son.<br /><br />What concerns me is that you say your son fits the definition of sociopath "to a T". The medical term for sociopath is one who has Antisocial Personality Disorder. The DSM-IV criteria are as follows:<br /><br />[quote]<br /> A) There is a pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others occurring since age 15 years, as indicated by three or more of the following:<br /><br /> failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest;<br /> deception, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure;<br /> impulsiveness or failure to plan ahead;<br /> irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults;<br /> reckless disregard for safety of self or others;<br /> consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;<br /> lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another;<br /><br /> B) The individual is at least age 18 years.<br /> C) There is evidence of conduct disorder with onset before age 15 years.<br /> D) The occurrence of antisocial behavior is not exclusively during the course of schizophrenia or a manic episode. [/quote]<br /><br />So, first of all, is your son at least 18? Because if he isn't, he doesn't qualify.<br /><br />Yes, there are similarities between the difficulty in socialization inherent with autism and that manifested by ASPD. But those with ASPD usually form relationships quite easily, but only to use the other person, whom they despise as weak. Somehow I doubt your son fits that, but only you can tell.<br /><br />JoeClub 166https://www.blogger.com/profile/01816977079856902634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post-16372591857940691202012-07-25T14:35:24.665+01:002012-07-25T14:35:24.665+01:00Not all autistics are psycho. And while I wouldn&#...Not all autistics are psycho. And while I wouldn't want newscasters to pretend everything is a bed of roses, I also wouldn't want them to link "mass murderer psychopath/ sociopath/ wacko/ whatever the medical term is this week" with "autistic." Because it just isn't so.<br /><br />Anyway, Joe, I'm not so surprised people would have all kinds of opinions about autistics or whatever. What continues to surprise me but probably shouldn't is that they have such a wide audience and need to say so little in "clarification" after they have been so horrid on air.Happy Elf Mom (Christine)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15047347624037697311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5821799658844915805.post-26836363853515857572012-07-25T13:44:17.700+01:002012-07-25T13:44:17.700+01:00My Husband would be "disconnected" but s...My Husband would be "disconnected" but since I'm currently a "farm widow" this summer with the drought... someone's gotta do it. There's a reason I'm a SAHM and we've agreed that he gets an opinion but no say in the end.<br /><br />As for the "disconnect" there's a reason the Counselor is coming this fall to attempt to plow through the ToM issues I'm having with my "going into Gr 8" son.<br /><br />Sorry, ToM exists. Mine's fits the definition of sociopath to a "T". Lack of "give a shit" exists in the HFA crowd. The school wasn't surprised... they do this daily. I was told when my son was 6 that the biggest behaviour group isn't the low function but the high one.<br /><br />I know, I know, the autism crowd wants to tell you it's all roses. Can't blame them. But many, many "passing for normal" highly educated, socially disconnect people exist. Autism is a lack of social connectivity. Period.<br /><br />Maybe the shooter has autism, maybe he doesn't... but that's up for the psych's to decide. What the autism community needs to do is learn to admit ToM exists. That just because you know the right things to say or feel doesn't mean you do. Truth is, the more I read about their "empathy" the more I realize many don't know the meaning of the word. They know what they should or should not do but it's not instinctive. Then as a group you can move forward and address the social disconnect that exists... it's not a "way of being", it's a "way of not being able to participate"... which worst case scenerio... disaster.<br /><br />I am addressing the issue... are others???farmwifetwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680758336779501712noreply@blogger.com